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She looked weary. That was the first thing I noticed.

Her lip was cut and freshly scabbed over. She looked tired.

I was glad she came.

Sunday mornings are my favorite. There is always warmth at church. There are always smiles. And my Sunday school class seemed like the perfect place for this young woman. She looked as though she could use warmth. She could use a friendly smile.

She began to sob.

She told us of her cheating husband and her ailing mother. She had three little girls to look after and no place to go.

She was scared. She left the kids with a friend for the day so she could sort things out. She walked to our church.

"Let's see love in action," our class leader said as he walked out the door.

It was up to us, seven people in our 20s, to help.

We packed her bags. We booked her a hotel. We bought her lunch. We made plans to take her and the children to dinner. We booked her tickets on the next Greyhound to Missouri, where her ailing mother lived.

My husband gathered coloring books and crayons for the girls.

"It's going to be a long road for them, and they're leaving all their toys behind," he said.

The short version of what happened next is probably best. The next morning, we discovered that this young, teary-eyed woman wasn't exactly being truthful about her situation.

It appeared she really only wanted some money, and there might not have been any children at all.

We were, at first, devastated.

Fleeced at church? How did we not see it coming? Why didn't we ask more questions?

Then reality set in, and this reality was beautiful:

We'd do it all again.

And on Earth, peace, good will toward men.

That's the King James Version of the last part of Luke 2:14. It's the one most of us - thanks to Hallmark and a handful of carols - have memorized.

Reality is, good will isn't merely a notion. It means giving - of our hearts, our energy, our time - without expecting anything, even truth or gratification, in return.

It means love in action.

And I'm grateful to be in the thick of it, every Sunday morning.