Viewfinder: Parenting the second time around - Kathleen Araiza spoils her grandson. If he wants, he can have a hamburger for breakfast and a latte before school. He can go to bed when he pleases, as long as he isn't difficult in the morning. Her approach to 12-year-old Nathaniel might be typical of any grandparent, but her involvement in his life is beyond what most could even fathom. Araiza and her husband, Carlos, are raising Nathaniel full time. Within a few months, they will adopt him.